However, before you get too swept away, it’s important to test that spark offline.
In fact, a study at the University of Florida found that you shouldn’t wait longer than 17 to 23 days before testing your spark in real life; those who stall can end up creating an idealized image of their date in their heads that reality can struggle to live up to.
And that includes—ahem—“self-portraits.” Take the initiative but then let the lady lead the way.
“Send a subtle but suggestive text to start with,” Kerner says. Never go beyond the level she’s at; otherwise you risk turning her off.” OLD: Dating One Woman At a Time. “If you want to avoid getting a bad reputation, stick to one date a night, don’t contact other women while on a date, and make sure you make a note of who’s who so you don’t use the wrong name,” Kerner says.
But with texting, you’ve got only her words to go on.” And even then she has more time to consider her response, giving her more control over the situation.
That’s why you have to take extra care with the timing and content of your texts.
Your date might or might not not lead to more – and you know what?And in basketball, officials dumped the no-dunk rule after fans complained that it made play less exciting.